Living Fully: Or Do We Worry Too Much?
How does one live ready, and always? -Ann Voskamp
On a Friday, a few weeks ago and my day off from work, I had a million things “to do” on my list and in my mind. But I sat down to read some of Ann’s new book …
Will I live life fully … or just empty?
My thoughts went directly to myself, and how I was feeling about the 12 friends coming over for a Super Bowl Party.
Okay, I’ll be honest here. With my writings about courage, challenging others to “invite,” guiding people along and encouraging them to “reach out,” my mind still goes toward the “my house isn’t good enough,” “what will they think?” “we need to remodel our bathrooms,” “what about the carpet,” and “will they like the food?”
Me, me, me.
Ann’s words this day were salve for an anxious mind and a nervous attitude about entertaining.
It’s not about me. It’s about dying to self, living, being gracious, giving out.
My focus for having people over is not about my house.
It’s not about gourmet food or the image that comes along with entertaining.
No, my focus needs to be sitting with my friends, engaging, having fun, laughing, eating, sharing stories, watching the game here and there, celebrating the Packers victory, and NOT worrying about my house.
How do we live fully?
Or do we worry about things that really don’t matter?
I’d love to hear whether you struggle and worry about ‘stuff’ when you know people are coming over?