An Ordinary Meal: Enthusiastic Conversation!

I often wonder what ordinary meals are like in other homes. Many times I can double up my cooking, and then we have leftovers the next night … or two, or three. I am definitely not slaving in the kitchen all the time, although I wish I had more time to try out new recipes. I sometimes feel like I get stuck in a rut with my cooking. I often hear of other women who feel the same way!

Earlier this week, as it was a rare night with everybody home, I made an Alfredo Sauce and added pulled chicken, fresh spinach, and served it over pasta.

Along with freshly baked bread (frozen from Costco, bake at 375 for 23 minutes!)

And salad from the garden.

I added apricot jam and balsamic vinegar to the green beans. Delicious!

We served it up and had a tasty meal with enthusastic conversation (how can it not be zippy with 3 teenagers?)

- We always go around the table and ask about the highs and lows of the day.
- When our kids talk, we listen. We never shut them down.
- The table is a safe place. Anything can be said.
- There’s always room for sadness, passion, and a lot of laughter.

Here are some ingredients I try to keep on hand for last minutes meals like this:

1. Pulled chicken, frozen in a Ziploc bag
2. Pasta
3. Whipping cream
4. Parmesan cheese

You can then add whatever veggies you have in the fridge, like zucchini, spinach, peppers, etc.

What’s an ordinary meal that you keep the ingredients on hand for?

Easter Inspiration: Open the doors to Outdoor Dining!

I love the meal that we had this last weekend when our friends came for dinner. We’re really aiming to eat healthier as a family, and it had been awhile since we had steak, so we wanted to treat our guests. When we entertain we usually try to keep it as simple as possible: meat, potatoes, veggies on the grill and a salad and bread.

The lovely part about the evening was that it was our first time to eat outside this year! We hosed down the back patio, pulled out the new umbrellas that we had stored in the shed, and spruced up the entertaining area a bit.

It wasn’t perfect, but the evening temp was perfect, the food was tasty and the company and conversation was soul-inspiring!

First off, my son set the table. Teenage boys don’t know the difference between a salad fork and a regular fork. Or if they do, they don’t really care! So the table was set with salad forks. Now normally I would have just left it, but I do think adults like to use a regular fork with dinner, so I swapped them out. Oh, and he used the larger spoon, but I left that in the setting. I’m always reminding myself that things do not have to be perfect.

The tags were still hanging on the new umbrellas. I purchased a stash of umbrellas about 3 years ago on sale for $19.99, and have stored them in the shed.

We started off with a delicious bean dip, packed with crisp, juicy vegetables. I can’t wait to share this recipe with you in my NEW BOOK. It’s so good, it’s almost a meal!

Getting the food ready to barbeque …

We cut fresh chives from the garden for the potatoes, to go along with the salad and bread.

And fresh flowers from the yard.

The lights were strung and added a beautiful ambience when the sun went down.

In the morning, it looked like this. This is where we had a fire the night before, sitting for hours, talking with the kids, laughing and telling stories. We laughed with each other. We laughed at ourselves! There were some pretty funny moments!

Hosting a dinner party is a way to reflect God’s love through hospitality.

Share the preparation with your friends allows them to contribute to the meal so you don’t have to carry the burden of the cost. And if you haven’t thought about Easter yet, it’s time! My friend Anne and I grabbed a piece of paper and wrote out what we plan to serve for Easter Brunch this year.

I’m not sure if we’ll be able to eat outside for Easter this Sunday, but even if it’s too chilly, we can still open the doors and let the fresh air in …

I’d love to hear if you’ve opened your doors to outdoor dining this year? And how’s your Easter menu coming along?

Don’t forget tomorrow is Home is … Day here at RE! Link up and share about a delicious scent in your home! Check out the side bar for the weekly post ideas. You can read more details at the end of this post.

Pull out a Memory Piece: Good Conversation!

Made in CA 188

Have I told you how much I love impromptu? Actually, it wasn’t always that way. I used to always need a heads up, or advanced warning if friends were stopping by. But I’ve learned to relax a bit …

My nephew and niece were coming for tacos – Easy.

Our friends stopped by on their way through town – Easy.

Just add more rice and beans to stretch the meal – Easy.

What I loved about this evening in particular was that our friends who were coming through town were friends with my parents, years ago. In fact, they were both in their wedding!

Mom's plate

I took a very special dish, passed down from my Mom, that I had tucked away in the garage, just waiting to use at the perfect meal. Being about 50+ years old, it was still in its original box.

This was the night – as I used it for the condiments for our Mexican meal. I also thought about the friendship my Mom and Vinnie had as young girls.

Mom and Vinnie

After dinner, Vinnie and I were looking at the backside of the dishes and each piece was marked, Made in California, with a number … 183, 188, etc.

Made in CA 183

Vinnie reminisced about how these line of dishes were the rave in California. Everybody had them!

Mom's plate

Not knowing the value, I knew it was worth a lot to me just because it was my Mom’s!

Don’t you just love impromptu, adding rice and beans to stretch a meal, and pulling out a memory piece for good conversation?

Or, can you think of something sentimental that would create good mealtime conversation?

(Don’t forget there is still time to enter to win a ticket to A Woman Inspired online conference coming up later this month! 5 winners will be announced tomorrow!)

ADDED: A sweet reply from my friend Vinnie after she read the above post.

Sandy My Sweet Friend: I loved what you wrote about the dishes from Millie on your blog in fact I shed a few tears remembering our climb on the mountian and her wedding. What fun times we had together. I bet somewhere is a list of Millie’s gift registry and who gave that gift to her at her wedding. It would be so interesting to know.

I love sharing that part of my long ago life with you, I know Millie would be happy knowing we are friends, I have so many sweet letters from her also that I have saved.