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		By: Andrea Doherty		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Aug 2013 11:33:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[“Our need for worth is so powerful that whatever we base our identity and value on we essentially &#039;deify.&#039; We will look to it with all the passion and intensity of worship and devotion, even if we think ourselves as highly irreligious. ”
― Timothy Keller]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Our need for worth is so powerful that whatever we base our identity and value on we essentially &#8216;deify.&#8217; We will look to it with all the passion and intensity of worship and devotion, even if we think ourselves as highly irreligious. ”<br />
― Timothy Keller</p>
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		By: Shari Kelley		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Shari Kelley]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Aug 2013 00:43:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is such a great post.  I love your solution to inadequate feelings - being thankful.  I am going to try to put it into practice this week!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is such a great post.  I love your solution to inadequate feelings &#8211; being thankful.  I am going to try to put it into practice this week!</p>
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		By: Sandy Coughlin		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 22:27:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101282&quot;&gt;Mersad&lt;/a&gt;.

Great points, Mersad! Thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101282">Mersad</a>.</p>
<p>Great points, Mersad! Thank you!</p>
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		By: Sandy Coughlin		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sandy Coughlin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 22:27:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101281&quot;&gt;Karol&lt;/a&gt;.

I can think of a few things, Karol. First of all, don&#039;t spend too much time trying to figure other people out. Give yourself permission to move away and focus on new friendships. Sometimes we get in a rut, and it&#039;s okay to move through the seasons of life, which sometimes means friendships. It sounds like you are wise and have figured this out already! :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101281">Karol</a>.</p>
<p>I can think of a few things, Karol. First of all, don&#8217;t spend too much time trying to figure other people out. Give yourself permission to move away and focus on new friendships. Sometimes we get in a rut, and it&#8217;s okay to move through the seasons of life, which sometimes means friendships. It sounds like you are wise and have figured this out already! :)</p>
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		By: Sandy Coughlin		</title>
		<link>https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101301</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sandy Coughlin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 22:25:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101280&quot;&gt;Nancy&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you, Nancy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101280">Nancy</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you, Nancy!</p>
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		By: Sandy Coughlin		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sandy Coughlin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 22:25:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101278&quot;&gt;Sommer @ ASpicyPerspective&lt;/a&gt;.

And I love the &quot;me&quot; - &quot;you&quot; - Sommer! I love the zest of life that you bring to people who you are with!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101278">Sommer @ ASpicyPerspective</a>.</p>
<p>And I love the &#8220;me&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;you&#8221; &#8211; Sommer! I love the zest of life that you bring to people who you are with!</p>
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		By: Sandy Coughlin		</title>
		<link>https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101299</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sandy Coughlin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 22:24:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101277&quot;&gt;Pam&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, Pam. It&#039;s easy to get our focus out-of-balance for sure!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101277">Pam</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, Pam. It&#8217;s easy to get our focus out-of-balance for sure!</p>
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		By: Sandy Coughlin		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sandy Coughlin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 22:22:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101289&quot;&gt;Brittany&lt;/a&gt;.

Brittany, I read it and have that book. It&#039;s excellent! :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101289">Brittany</a>.</p>
<p>Brittany, I read it and have that book. It&#8217;s excellent! :)</p>
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		By: Sandy Coughlin		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sandy Coughlin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 22:22:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101290&quot;&gt;Cassie&lt;/a&gt;.

Good tips, Cassie-girl! :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101290">Cassie</a>.</p>
<p>Good tips, Cassie-girl! :)</p>
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		By: Sandy Coughlin		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sandy Coughlin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Aug 2013 22:22:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101292&quot;&gt;Barbara &#124; Creative Culinary&lt;/a&gt;.

Great points, Barb. Thanks for sharing your journey and wisdom! Even the people who we think always get invited, or are so important, don&#039;t and aren&#039;t. It&#039;s all about perspective and how we&#039;re motivated. I feel very blessed, too. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://reluctantentertainer.com/comparing-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-101292">Barbara | Creative Culinary</a>.</p>
<p>Great points, Barb. Thanks for sharing your journey and wisdom! Even the people who we think always get invited, or are so important, don&#8217;t and aren&#8217;t. It&#8217;s all about perspective and how we&#8217;re motivated. I feel very blessed, too. :)</p>
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