Comments on: Steering Lunch Party Conversation in a Positive Direction

By: Scribbling Sarah

Scribbling Sarah — Mon, 30 Sep 2013 19:28:01 +0000

In reply to Sarah. Sounds like we are alike-in more than name :). I, too, as an introvert have trouble knowing what to say, either I flee the confrontation by silence or if it is directed against someone I over-do it defending them! It's a hard thing, and I'd like suggestions, too!

By: Sommer @ ASpicyPerspective

Sommer @ ASpicyPerspective — Thu, 26 Sep 2013 01:44:30 +0000

Love the table decorations and the super-practical advice! Thanks for sharing! :)

By: Emily

Emily — Wed, 25 Sep 2013 18:30:41 +0000

Thanks for the reminder! So true . . . it’s not necessary to let someone who is being inconsiderate dominate and keep others from enjoying the company of one another.

By: LoveFeast Table

LoveFeast Table — Wed, 25 Sep 2013 05:50:48 +0000

Sandy – You sure do know how to set a table!
Thanks for sharing the velvet pumpkins from LoveFeast Shop!
The LoveFeast Girls

By: Sarah

Sarah — Wed, 25 Sep 2013 02:38:18 +0000

I second a post on practical suggestions! As an introvert, I often can’t think of something to say in the moment – only after the fact (if it all). If I come prepared to be an assertive guest or hostess, I might have a better chance at saying the right thing in the right tone. :) Thanks for acknowledging this phenomenon, though. It is SO TRUE. And it’s something most of us don’t plan for, yet we need to anticipate it!

By: Linda Ford

Linda Ford — Wed, 25 Sep 2013 00:52:41 +0000

I would love to hear about how, exactly, to steer the conversation in a new direction in a smooth manner. Suggestions? Thanks,
Linda

By: Sandy Coughlin

Sandy Coughlin — Tue, 24 Sep 2013 14:52:13 +0000

In reply to Stacy | Wicked Good Kitchen. Thank you, Stacy. Actually, the offending guests often does "not" get the message, so that's where you have to step in and move the conversation, or make a change. It's an interesting dynamic, and one we've all experienced. Thanks for sharing, girl!

By: Sandy Coughlin

Sandy Coughlin — Tue, 24 Sep 2013 14:50:51 +0000

In reply to Barbara. Barbara, thank you for your kind words and years of being a faithful follower of RE! I appreciate YOU!

By: Barbara

Barbara — Tue, 24 Sep 2013 14:37:06 +0000

Sandy, Thank you for this practical advise for a problem all hostesses face from time to time. It happens in Bible study groups, and can occur in any gathering. Most of us feel quite helpless to do anything about it.

But you are right, for the sake of our other guests, the direction of the conversation must be changed. May the Lord give me the grace and wisdom to bring about needed change the next time I’m in a group where this happens.

Thank you for your beautiful blog. I have lost track of how long I’ve been subscribed to your posts, but they are wonderful, uplifting, and wholesome.

By: Stacy | Wicked Good Kitchen

Stacy | Wicked Good Kitchen — Tue, 24 Sep 2013 12:30:45 +0000

Excellent post, Sandy! I’m sorry you experienced the actions of a difficult personality while you were entertaining the ladies in your neighborhood. It can be awkward, it’s only natural. But, these instances are best countered with a quick change in the subject of conversation, as you mentioned on a positive note, and exchanging smiles and laughter all around the table. The offending guest will get the message that talk of that sort is not welcome and others will appreciate your leadership in getting the positive vibe back for the gathering. Thanks for sharing!