Comments on: Teaching our Families about Setting the Table

By: Natalie

Natalie — Tue, 06 Nov 2012 18:31:19 +0000

Because I was taught how to set the table from an early age, I assumed it was common knowledge for anyone over the age of say, 8 years old. Not so, as I learned when I asked my 23 year old female cousin to help set the table for dinner at our house a few nights ago. I don’t really have any rules, aside from the fact that I insist on using real plates at all times. I’m always surprised how many people I know who eat off paper or foam every single night for ‘convenience’.

By: Dana @ Cooking at Cafe D

Dana @ Cooking at Cafe D — Tue, 06 Nov 2012 18:30:01 +0000

Love your ideas – and that pic showing the upside down tablecloth!

I remember when I was little – DREADING – visiting relatives on the holidays. They would want to “let me help” and often it was setting the table. But, at home, we were a fast food family or we ate in front of the TV. So, the only time I set a table…was at the holidays. And, I could never remember how. And, I was usually too embarrassed to ask.

From that I have learned to first set one place myself.
THEN…it there is a youngster I want to ask to help, I can say, “Can I ask a favor? Would you please help me by finishing up the rest of the table?

That way, they have an example :)

Blessings,
~ Dana
Cooking At Cafe D

By: Wanda @ My Sweet Zepol

Wanda @ My Sweet Zepol — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 19:13:59 +0000

This post has got me thinking. My parents weren’t really formal when it came to setting the table. No matter the occasion.
I have two little girls, and love the idea of teaching them how to be creative when it comes to presenting the food, at the dinner table.

By: Kim

Kim — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 18:35:02 +0000

“I’d have a tendency to jump in or point out how it could be done “better,” or for “next time.” (Perfectionist at heart.)” That’s me! I am trying to let go, though…thanks to you, Sandy!

By: Cathy @ Noble Pig

Cathy @ Noble Pig — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 17:32:18 +0000

I love a beautifully set table and appreciate anyone who takes the time to do it. The three males in my home do not share my enthusiam but I think it makes your guests feel more welcome and that you prepared for them.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 16:43:03 +0000

I use to love setting the table for holidays. My mom and grama always encouraged me too with fun ways for flowers, candles, etc.

By: Barbara

Barbara — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 15:16:56 +0000

Sandy, Just a note here to say that I enjoy your blog posts so much. They both inspire and inform me with the content, photography, and wisdom. I, like you, enjoy a pretty table that is put together properly, but you are entirely correct in letting the minor mistakes go. Had to chuckle when I saw the tag on the table cloth — I’ve done that myself! Please continue with your encouragement to all of us.

By: Liz @ The Lemon Bowl

Liz @ The Lemon Bowl — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 15:03:24 +0000

Love this post, Sandy. My little guy can’t set the table yet but I always have memories of settling the table with my sisters growing up. Can’t wait to share the tradition!!

By: Heather @ Heather's Dish

Heather @ Heather's Dish — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 14:18:17 +0000

my parents always made us set the table correctly for dinners during the week, and even though it was a pain at the time i’m really glad that they did. we don’t set the table all the time now that i’m married, but when we do it looks great :)

By: Tara G.

Tara G. — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 13:11:52 +0000

I have them practice during the week and work with them so they know left and right and what goes where. I also have them make place cards for bigger parties and let them set them out.