Warm Connections {Day 25}: Find Your Own Way of Homemaking & Not a DYI Diva Giveaway!
My friend, Melissa, from The Inspired Room, just wrote her first eBook and I could’t be more proud of her accomplishment. It’s long past due and today 3 people get the chance to WIN a copy!
Melissa’s simple approach to authentic living is inspiring and catching! Through her new ebook creation, Not a DYI Diva, she encourages us to find our own way of homemaking, by not letting perfectionism get in the way.
She shows, in a beautiful way, that hospitality matters and starts with us–in our homes, in the ways we show people we care, and in our attitudes toward others in our everyday lives.
I love this! I hope everyone buys her book because it’s fantastic!
Yes, warm connections start in the home. And with or without a family, I love the thought of helping teach the next generation the importance of living an authentic life.
Today Melissa and I are giving away 3 copies of her new book!
If you can’t wait to see if you’re one of the winners, head over to The Inspired Room to purchase your copy for $3.99 and check out Melissa’s comment contest going on.
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I struggle with wanting things to look perfect, whether the table setting, the food, or the house. When I remember what is important, it takes away all the worries, and entertaining becomes the star.
I love having groups of ladies in my home- however, my family is not so hip on it…they feel pushed out. I do struggle with having every last thing in place- the Martha syndrome.. :(
I struggle with have a small home and wanting it not cluttered before having people over. I would much rather be the guest than have guests over.
I can’t remember the last time we entertained anyone outside the family. I love the idea of welcoming people into my home, but become almost paralyzed with fear over things needing to be perfect. I so wish I could overcome this!
I often want to have guests over but the thought of an “imperfect” house come into my mind and I never get around to it. Oh sure we have family over but there just family, right?! I have to get over this thinking!!
..and I like RE on FB.
I guess I struggle the most with the duration of visits…I mean, I want to invite a couple of friends over for cake and tea in an afternoon for example, but only for a couple of hours because I have other things to do… and when that visits takes up the whole afternoon, it leaves me exhausted and none of my other chores accomplished. I cannot tell my guests that it’s time to go, obviously.
I tried saying that I have a couple of hours in the afternoon for some tea, would they like to come over?..but it didn’t work.
Same thing goes for dinners, 6-7 hours of hosting is tiring me. So that’s what I’m working on :)
How I appreciated the transparency in your posts ladies! I sadly, rarely have people over in a planned way…I struggle to multi-task (prepare, think, be aware of guest’s needs all at the same time). I also have a standard of cleanliness that I cannot keep up with….with homeschooling, the steady rivers of dog hair, lower energy….the kids and I work together on a rotational system of cleaning. Thus, if guests come over, the shelves may be dusted, but the toilets may have mold. I REALLY want to grow in this area and be obedient to entertaining / showing hospitality….Philippians 4:13 comes to mind :). “I can do everything through Him who strengthens me.”
I used to try to be perfect, but I’m learning that people come to see us and not our perfect entertaining skills.