A Fresh Perspective on the Home
Happy Tuesday, Friends!
I’ve received comments like this on Reluctant Entertainer for many years now:
I’m a reluctant entertainer because I think my home should be perfect when it’s not.
Is your hand in the air? (That’s me! That’s me!!)
Can you relate?
This is why I love my friend Nester’s 31-Day series on The Home. She’s writing about a different aspect each day in October. On Purpose. I think it is encouraging and can help us all, especially those of us who struggle with perfectionism.
One thing that has helped me learn to be content with the state of my home is to rearrange often. It adds a freshness to the home.
Each season, I try to move my furniture around, because it not only helps me get in under each piece to vacuum, it also inspires me to wipe down the window-seals, freshen things up, and gives our home a new “feel” for the season.
Also, knowing that there are people coming over to my house gets my creative housekeeping juices flowing. It’s just good to freshen things up a bit!
A few weeks ago, my home went from here.
To here. Same furniture, same corner of the room, just a new look.
I spent very little money, and brought in fresh pears that my son picked as an easy decoration.
The last yard sale I went to, I scored! New art on one wall.
And very fun vintage pears and apples on the other (bargain from the same sale).
My $3 large basket that is filled with apples (soon to be turned into delicious applesauce using my KitchenAid – I will walk you through the process!)
I love how the light is coming in over the sectional now, perfect for Fall mornings when I get my espresso and come out to the same place, and sit and read (my place of refuge).
Just a little bit of creativity, no money spent, and a new feel to our living room.
Nester’s perspective on the home is right on. I’ll leave you with these words. Head on over and check out her 31 Day series if you have the time. Boom! You may just have a change of attitude!
… No one ever says they want their home to feel unwelcoming. Or cold or unfriendly or unaccepting or harsh or lifeless or have a sense of fear. No one ever says they want their home to be boring or vanilla or average or store-bought. No one wants their home to be stressful. Believe it or not I don’t think I’ve ever heard any real, non-TV person say they want their home to be prettier than all their friends and full of the nicest, most perfect specimens.
But sometimes we approach decorating and designing in a way opposite to how we hope our home will feel. We make decisions as if we are being graded. We are afraid to create the home we’ve always dreamed of because we are afraid of being judged or laughed at or mocked. We worry and fret and procrastinate and ultimately waste years not enjoying home and making our family miserable along the way as we whine and complain and wish and verbalize our disappointment in our home. – The Nester
Do you rearrange with the change in seasons, or what helps you keep a healthy perspective of your home?
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