How to Overcome Anxiety with Last Minute Guests
Our friends were coming for dinner, a last-minute invite.
I didn’t know what to make! Immediately my mind froze up. I couldn’t think what to make for dinner, and I became anxious.
Does this ever happen to you?
I’ve learned to take a different approach though, to anxiety. Instead of letting it creep in, I tell myself, I can do this.
I don’t let all the “what-ifs” start whirling around in my head, but try to focus on what is most important.
By the way, what is more important with last minute guests … the appearance of your house or the food you serve?
I’d say the food you’ll serve.
We have to remember that our guests are not coming to see our homes, they are coming for fellowship and to commune with us around the table.
I have to take my mind off of myself, and the state of my house. (And make sure one bathroom is clean and ready to go!)
Back to focusing on the food: This night I thought about the ingredients I had on hand, one being fresh ground lean turkey in the fridge. I always stock beans in the cupboard, and it doesn’t take too much time to whip up some brown rice on the stove.
I’ve been using Jeffrey Saad’s seasoning mix for about a year now and let me tell you, his Mexican Spice Blend is fantastic. Mix your meat, add the seasoning, add in the beans and rice and you have a beautiful enchilada mixture.
My daughter helped me.
I made green and red enchiladas (green sauce and red sauce – love Trader’s Joe’s enchilada sauce).
Two pans were plenty for the number of guests coming to dinner.
And we served with a fresh green salad.
Enchiladas are some of the easiest ingredients to keep on hand. I often make the meat/rice/beans mixture ahead of time and freeze it in Ziploc bags.
No excuses when last-minute company comes!
I’m usually prepared.
And I’ll usually talk myself out of being anxious right away, so I can center on the menu.
Do you struggle with anxiety when entertaining?
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Panic becomes a problem, known as a disorder, when these moments of high anxiety happen frequently or without just cause.
You fear that you might lose your mind completely while with friends
and family.
I am more frazzles when I plan a big dinner and invite people over than when I have unexpected guests. Unexpected guests feel spontaneous and fun – I am proud of myself for letting go of my perfectionist tendendcies and enjoying the moment. For a planned dinner though my perfectionist tendencies sometime get the better of me and I am not fun to be around in the half hour before guests arrive. :-)
Oh gosh! I am going to have to print this post and put it on my refrigerator so what when this very thing happens to me I can re-read your words of wisdom! Anxious when people are coming unexpected for dinner (or at any time!) yes (hand raised high!) that is me right here. Thank you for the encrouaging words!